I need guidance, Oppo

Kinja'd!!! "Hooker" (Hooker)
01/21/2016 at 11:39 • Filed to: None

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I went to TTAC, logged in, and commented on an article. My question now is, did I go to far with my response and reasoning? In the article, Jack Baruth writes about the Texas Edition badge from a truck (presumably a Silverado). In the article (while unpacking the package with the badges) he says this:

Ladies (yeah, right) and gentlemen,......

I called him on it in the comments as being discriminatory towards women buyers and women in general. Feel free to peruse the comments section to see the rebuttals to my comment. A particularly interesting one is from Bark M. He states that my reading comprehension has failed and that Baruth meant that they have no female readers based on their statistics. That’s fine, but that’s not how it was stated.

In this community (cars and car enthusiasts) I feel we need to welcome and embrace our female counterparts as much as possible. I also feel like with comments like his, he is potentially alienating any chance of getting a female audience.

Take a look if you have a moment and read what I wrote. I am user kthooker. If I am wrong, I will freely admit it. Looking for guidance.

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DISCUSSION (38)


Kinja'd!!! For Sweden > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 11:43

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TTAC is the Deadspin of car blogs. Never venture there.


Kinja'd!!! Brian, The Life of > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 11:43

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LOL, TTAC ain’t Oppo ;)


Kinja'd!!! Aaron M - MasoFiST > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 11:44

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TTAC’s commenters skew right, white, and male. Too far or not, someone’s going to jump.


Kinja'd!!! CalzoneGolem > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 11:48

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I think you have gone way to far for TTAC already.


Kinja'd!!! Mercedes Streeter > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 11:49

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HA! You were nice, I would’ve been infinitely more “bitchy” (which is funny because many Jalopnik fp commenters like to call me a bitch)


Kinja'd!!! With-a-G is back to not having anything written after his username > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 11:52

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Whatever, “Hooker.”


Kinja'd!!! d15b > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 11:52

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We are pretty inclusive on Oppo. The author is just pandering to his readership. That being said, I agree with you.

It’s always better to leave the door slightly ajar than to have it closed outright.


Kinja'd!!! Brian, The Life of > For Sweden
01/21/2016 at 11:53

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Blake, Sanjeev and, of course, The Saucy Manx make the place tolerable, tho.


Kinja'd!!! Wacko > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 12:06

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don’t worry, nobody will even see your comment, with all those pop-ups and ads. TTAC takes forever just to load one page.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > d15b
01/21/2016 at 12:19

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That's literally the only point I was trying to make. I can't even get Bark to get that.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Brian, The Life of
01/21/2016 at 12:19

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Interestingly enough, I don't dislike most of the writers. But this is having me seriously rethink how they approach the available audience.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > For Sweden
01/21/2016 at 12:20

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This moderate storm is apparently my penance.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Mercedes Streeter
01/21/2016 at 12:22

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I always strive for nice first. I try to educate rather than burn at the stake. It has a much higher success rate. Though, obviously, not this time.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Wacko
01/21/2016 at 12:22

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Ha! I agree with you there. Except I have apparently pissed enough people off to respond.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Aaron M - MasoFiST
01/21/2016 at 12:23

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Apprently too far to derail their admittedly one track minds. Tunnel vision is dangerous man.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > CalzoneGolem
01/21/2016 at 12:24

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Thanks! I tried to help. I think I only succeeded in stirring the pot. And that's the first time I've been called a troll. Here's to new experiences.


Kinja'd!!! Birddog > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 12:26

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Don’t comment at TTAC.

Look at the comments for any ten posts there on any day. You’ll see that the comment sections are centered around the same eight to ten people every time.

Every. Single. Time.

That whole site is centered around the same eight to ten people.


Kinja'd!!! Tom McParland > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 12:26

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I’ve been tempted a few times to comment on a TTAC post. I open the dialogue box and a voice in my head says “Nah.” I close box and enjoy my day.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Birddog
01/21/2016 at 12:27

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That's a little scary. And admittedly they all seem to pat each other on the back for anything.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Tom McParland
01/21/2016 at 12:28

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I shall take that, now apparent, solid advice. To heart.


Kinja'd!!! CalzoneGolem > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 12:29

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I love how you get called a troll for suggesting they be slightly more open to women.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Brian, The Life of
01/21/2016 at 12:29

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That’s very very true. It’s just sad that they can’t take their heads out of the sand long enough to see that there may just be a better way. Maybe. Possibly. Yes.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > With-a-G is back to not having anything written after his username
01/21/2016 at 12:30

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That I am. Proud of it!


Kinja'd!!! Mercedes Streeter > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 12:31

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I usually do that method as well...up until the point where someone starts attacking me or is clearly someone who won’t be willing to have a real “conversation”, then eventually I just say “fuck it” and stop being so nice.

For example, if I make a mention of a certain website that has a four letter abbreviation anywhere on Kinja, burners come out of the woodwork being absolutely vile.

These idiots at TTAC don’t know why they have a small female readership...maybe it’s because the car community is generally unwelcoming to women? Because 95% of the time, when you see a woman involved with cars, she’s usually supposed to be the eye candy...not like you know, an actual car enthusiast. lol


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Mercedes Streeter
01/21/2016 at 12:34

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Yeah, tunnel vision is a bitch and I feel like they have a bad case of it. Sadly, no matter how hard I tried to educate, I failed. Can’t save everyone.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > CalzoneGolem
01/21/2016 at 12:40

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Fantastic, isn’t it? I love how Bark M called me a SJW (Social Justice Warrior. I had to look it up) I didn’t think so before, but I am now certain that he is a dick.


Kinja'd!!! Leadbull > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 13:03

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Baruth has always been kind of a dick.

I wouldn't worry about it too much.


Kinja'd!!! Chinny Raccoon > For Sweden
01/21/2016 at 13:33

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I used to read it a fair bit, then realised it wasn’t worth sifting through the Bellends to find the good stuff.


Kinja'd!!! Wacko > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 14:09

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looks like Baruth changed the article

Gentlemen, you have your mission. Post your best ideas — and prepare to receive a taste of TEXAS

and he is the one who use to write about his lady friend Mrs Vodka McBigbra

not to be that guy, but since he took over, TTAC went down the pisser.

never been the same since the Bertel Flying Vagina


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Wacko
01/21/2016 at 14:17

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Wait, he changed it? Where? I’m looking at it and I don’t see the changes. Did I miss something?


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Leadbull
01/21/2016 at 14:18

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After a while it wasn’t even so much him that I had a problem with. It was Bark M and the commentariat (I refuse to call it the B&B because that’s pretentious fuckery) They rallied around him like he was a god.


Kinja'd!!! Wacko > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 14:28

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what till all the fucken ads refresh, and for those 45 popups.

And here they are: all the TEXAS EDITION badges you can possibly handle. And I want to give them to you, dear reader. But I have literally almost three dollars into each one of them, plus shipping to your mom’s house, so I need to know that you’re going to do something awesome with whatever badge I send you. So here are the rules:

You come up with a destination for your TEXAS EDITION badge, and post it in this thread. The more ridiculous and offensive, the better.

Good ideas: your compact truck or Japanese car.

Better idea: your race car.

Even better idea: your exotic car.

A brave idea: a cop car.

Best idea of all: a video of you surreptitiously putting the thing on some dicknozzle’s new-money 458 Italia or Bentley Flying Spur.

Idea that won’t happen, no matter how much I’d fancy it: a badge stuck to your girlfriend’s impressive bare chest. (Or yours, I suppose.)

I’ll select ten “winners” and contact you to arrange delivery.

Then you’ll fulfill your promise and send a photo.

Which I will put up on this site.

The first five people to actually do what they say they’re going to do with their TEXAS EDITION badges will receive a free T-shirt commemorating our disastrous attempt to race a 450SLC without a rollcage in … Texas, of course!

Gentlemen, you have your mission. Post your best ideas — and prepare to receive a taste of TEXAS.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Wacko
01/21/2016 at 14:31

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I still see this here. I’d like to think he’d change it. However, I’m not going to hold my breath.


Kinja'd!!! Officer Jim Lahey is not a real cop > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 14:41

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While I do read it as a joke about the site not having many female readers, I agree that it comes across as being less than inclusive of female readers/enthusiasts.


Kinja'd!!! Wacko > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 14:41

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my bad, wrong place.

well at least you didn’t get trolled by Mopar fanboy Bigtrucks......


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Wacko
01/21/2016 at 15:01

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That’s the silver lining for the day. I’m sure of that.


Kinja'd!!! Hooker > Officer Jim Lahey is not a real cop
01/21/2016 at 15:02

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I agree that it could be read as a joke. It just hit me that it could have been worded better.


Kinja'd!!! WiscoProud > Hooker
01/21/2016 at 15:04

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I read it as a joke they had few female readers, not that they weren’t welcome. Your comment comes off as possibly being hypersensitive to perceived sexism, when the author was just pointing out the male bias in their readers.

If he had said something like “Ladies (you don’t care) and gentlemen” I would perceive that to demean the female readers.